Author Archives: candyirven

Coming to you live from mediation

Posted on July 25, 2018

I type this from a windowless room about the size of a small home office where I sit with my attorney. Both of us hunkered down behind our computers doing what we can to pass the time as we wait… … Continue reading →

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It’s a match…or was it??

Posted on February 11, 2018

It’s funny how phrases can get stuck in your head…and then take on a life of their own. For example, I’ve had the phrase “It’s a match” rolling around in my head for a while now but somewhere along the line … Continue reading →

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I’m baaaaaack…and fancy as fuck!

Posted on January 21, 2018

It’s been a hot minute…ok, so it’s been nearly 3 years…since I wrote a post. To say a LOT has happened would be an understatement! I’ve contemplated writing about it on a number of occasions but the time didn’t feel right…until … Continue reading →

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21 days to make a habit

Posted on April 23, 2015

They say that it typically takes 21 days to make something a habit.  So imagine how I felt after 365 days…of writing…every.day. writing.  To say that it’s been a weird month since meeting my 365 day goal would be an … Continue reading →

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Day 365: A life of abundance and gratitude

Posted on March 25, 2015

Well, here I am.  The last day of my blog.  Talk about pressure to be prophetic… I’ve had friends ask me what I was going to write about on the last day.  If I already had it written.  If I … Continue reading →

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Day 364: Hoosier hospitality

Posted on March 24, 2015

On the eve of my last post, my heart is a bit heavy.  I’m sad for all the arguments that are ensuing between friends, family, and fellow citizens because of the need to legislate bigotry in the state I’ve called … Continue reading →

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Day 363: It’s time to be a bit more tolerant

Posted on March 23, 2015

My New Year’s Resolution for 2014 was to stop judging so much.  As a result, I coined the phrase #factnotjudging, because sometimes you just have to be able to call a spade a spade.  And that’s what I feel like … Continue reading →

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