Category Archives: divorce

Coming to you live from mediation

I type this from a windowless room about the size of a small home office where I sit with my attorney. Both of us hunkered down behind our computers doing what we can to pass the time as we wait… … Continue reading

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It’s a match…or was it??

It’s funny how phrases can get stuck in your head…and then take on a life of their own. For example, I’ve had the phrase “It’s a match” rolling around in my head for a while now but somewhere along the line … Continue reading

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I’m baaaaaack…and fancy as fuck!

It’s been a hot minute…ok, so it’s been nearly 3 years…since I wrote a post. To say a LOT has happened would be an understatement! I’ve contemplated writing about it on a number of occasions but the time didn’t feel right…until … Continue reading

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Day 277: Hawaii bound

Since we’re going to be on a flight for 9+ hours today, we decided to play it low key last night.  We ventured out for a late lunch, an adult beverage, and some football before heading back to the room. … Continue reading

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Day 238: A big day

Today was a big day.  I knew it was going to be when I woke up but I wasn’t expecting to have such an unsettling feeling.  I’m pretty sure much of that was a result of the dream I had. … Continue reading

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Day 209: Protecting that little girl

I might as well get this out of the way… I never had a dad.  Sure, I had a father…but not a dad.  The difference is a father does just that.  He “fathers” a child…and that’s it.  A dad is … Continue reading

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Day 135: Betraying myself

So this whole fear of betrayal thing is fascinating.  And here’s why… I don’t fashion myself to be a jealous person.  I’ve always taken the position that if someone isn’t happy enough with me to not cheat, well…then…they should go … Continue reading

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